Thursday, October 3, 2013

No Nonsense, Best Policy!

Hey Queens,

     I hope you all are enjoying the Fall weather so far. The leaves changing colors is so wonderful. Today I was thinking as I made my way to work, that the Fall season is just like the seasons we have spiritually. So many people may come into our life, but they may be there only for a season. After they have fulfilled their purpose for being in your life whether it be good or "bad", God orders their steps to lead away from you. Unfortunately because we don't know when to use discernment (wisdom) we mistake those temporary folk, for permanent friends.

   The people that come into our life is like the saying parts of a tree. One tree is the roots that represent those that have been in your life, foundation (God, morals and lessons). Then you have those that represent the branches that are in your life for long periods of time. The "branch people" can be there helping you, supporting you, encouraging you, praying for you and then you have those "branch people" that can be so negative, draining and not good for you but because you have known them for so long you don't want to let them go. Oh yes, and don't try to hold on to them God will snatch them right out of your life. Then you have those that are like leaves, not exactly associates but they are not meant to be there longer than a season. It's already order by God that they have to leave you..unfortunately along with those leaves sometimes come with pain. This is where wisdom comes in and you have to pray and ask God to help you use that wisdom.

   There will be many leaf like people that come into your life. They talk to you, start to build a friendship or relationship with you but they could also be placed in your life to trip you up. Now this is when you would pray and ask God if they are there for a purpose, because they could be sent by satan himself to trip you up, to distract you from what God has called you to do. These type of people will turn you off and on like a light switch, they will say all the "right" things but their intentions and spirit is the complete opposite. One way to figure them out is their consistency and also actions. Their true character will appear and it won't be anything like they portrayed it to be in the beginning. If it throws you off and something in your spirit is telling you things are NOT quite right with that person that something is God, trying to warn you. That is the spirit of discernment listen to it and walk away from that person before they are able to cause you harm.

  Don't ever let anyone take advantage of you, the person you are growing into, or your time. Show them too will NOT take any NONSENSE and that you are bold enough, smart enough, and down right courageous enough to walk away. If they take offense to your actions or by your words, they just showed you who they truly are, they were NOT there for good intentions, they were there to distract you. Ladies actions always speak louder than words, so please pay attention to what God is trying to show you and tell you.

  If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and He will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. -James 1:5

When you don't know what to do, ask God for some help.
                     
                              Peace & Blessings
                                   Queens -DW
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